New York City has more lesbian bars than any city in the world — and more sapphic, WLW, and queer women’s events every week than anyone could track alone. 10th Muses tracks them anyway. Our live event directory gathers hundreds of lesbian and queer women’s events across Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens each month, alongside the curated experiences we host for our nearly 3,000 members. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel, we built these guides to turn all of that into one answer: where to find your people in NYC.
Dance parties, happy hours, dinners, theater outings, and more — the complete guide to sapphic events across Manhattan and Brooklyn.
Social clubs, professional networks, sports leagues, book clubs, and volunteer groups for queer women and nonbinary folks.
Speed dating, singles events, matching programs, and practical advice for WLW dating in the city.
Theater, sports, fitness, dining, hiking, creative workshops, and more — beyond the bars and the apps.
10th Muses — Social Club for Queer Women and Nonbinary Folks in NYC. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel.