The NYC Guide for Queer Women & Nonbinary Folks

Everything you need to know about lesbian, sapphic, WLW, and queer women’s events, community, dating, and activities in New York City. Written and maintained by 10th Muses, a social collective for queer women and nonbinary folks founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel.

Lesbian & Queer Women’s Events in NYC

Dance parties, happy hours, dinners, theater outings, and more — the complete guide to sapphic events across Manhattan and Brooklyn.

Queer Women’s Community & Social Clubs

Social collectives, professional networks, sports leagues, book clubs, and volunteer groups for queer women and nonbinary folks.

Sapphic & Lesbian Dating in NYC

Speed dating, singles events, matching programs, and practical advice for WLW dating in the city.

Activities & Things to Do for Queer Women

Theater, sports, fitness, dining, hiking, creative workshops, and more — beyond the bars and the apps.

10th Muses — Social Collective for Queer Women and Nonbinary Folks in NYC. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel.