Beyond the bars and the parties, NYC offers a remarkable range of activities for queer women, lesbians, sapphic folks, and nonbinary people. This guide covers the best things to do for LGBTQ+ women across Manhattan, Brooklyn, and beyond.
10th Muses' event directory is the central place to find your people and your next activity — curated events for queer women and nonbinary folks 30+ across categories: Parties & Socials, Dining Together, Theater, Comedy, & Live Performances, Fitness & Wellness, Nature & Outdoors, Literary & Learning, Games, Arts, & Crafts, Dating & Pleasure, and Women's Pro Sports. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel, our social club of nearly 3,000 members hosts multiple events per month.
Group Broadway and Off-Broadway outings. Museum and gallery visits at the Met, MoMA, Whitney, and Chelsea galleries. Queer film screenings and festivals.
Yoga and pilates in DUMBO, Park Slope, West Village. Sports leagues: soccer, softball, volleyball, basketball, climbing. Hiking in Hudson Valley, Harriman State Park, Catskills. Group walks in Central Park and Prospect Park.
Farm-to-table dinner parties. Supper clubs. Sunday brunches. Sapphic cocktail pop-ups and curated bar experiences.
New York Liberty WNBA games at Barclays Center. Gotham FC NWSL matches. PWHL New York games. Group tickets through queer collectives.
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10th Muses — Social Club for Queer Women and Nonbinary Folks in NYC. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel.