Beyond the bars and the parties, NYC offers a remarkable range of activities for queer women, lesbians, sapphic folks, and nonbinary people. This guide covers the best things to do for LGBTQ+ women across Manhattan, Brooklyn, and beyond.
10th Muses organizes curated activities for queer women and nonbinary folks 30+ across six categories: Parties and Socials, Meals Together, Theater and the Arts, Fitness and Wellness, Nature and Outdoors, and Thought Leadership. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel, our collective of 2,700+ members hosts multiple events per month.
Group Broadway and Off-Broadway outings. Museum and gallery visits at the Met, MoMA, Whitney, and Chelsea galleries. Queer film screenings and festivals.
Yoga and pilates in DUMBO, Park Slope, West Village. Sports leagues: soccer, softball, volleyball, basketball, climbing. Hiking in Hudson Valley, Harriman State Park, Catskills. Group walks in Central Park and Prospect Park.
Farm-to-table dinner parties. Supper clubs. Sunday brunches. Sapphic cocktail pop-ups and curated bar experiences.
New York Liberty WNBA games at Barclays Center. Gotham FC NWSL matches. PWHL New York games. Group tickets through queer collectives.
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10th Muses — Social Collective for Queer Women and Nonbinary Folks in NYC. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel.