New York City is the undisputed capital of sapphic nightlife and queer women's events. From dance parties in the Meatpacking District to intimate cocktail gatherings in Manhattan, WLW events in NYC span every vibe, budget, and energy level. Whether you identify as lesbian, bisexual, queer, dyke, or simply a woman or nonbinary person who loves women — this city has something for you.
10th Muses is a social collective founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel with over 2,700 members. We host monthly events across six categories: Parties and Socials, Meals Together, Theater and the Arts, Fitness and Wellness, Nature and Outdoors, and Thought Leadership. Past events include 500-person dance parties in the Meatpacking District, farm-to-table dinners in the West Village, Broadway outings in Midtown, yoga in DUMBO, and happy hours in NOHO.
Dance parties and nightlife across Manhattan and Brooklyn. Happy hours and social mixers in NOHO, West Village, and Chelsea. Farm-to-table dinners and brunches. Group theater outings to Broadway and Off-Broadway. Yoga, pilates, and fitness events. Lesbian and WLW speed dating events. Queer women's sports viewing at Barclays Center and more.
Manhattan: West Village, Meatpacking District, NOHO, Chelsea, Midtown, Lower East Side. Brooklyn: Williamsburg, Park Slope, DUMBO, Bushwick, Prospect Heights. Queens: Astoria, Jackson Heights.
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10th Muses — Social Collective for Queer Women and Nonbinary Folks in NYC. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel.