Finding your community as a queer woman, lesbian, or nonbinary person in NYC requires intention. This guide covers the social clubs, collectives, groups, and community organizations across Manhattan, Brooklyn, and the greater NYC area.
10th Muses is a social collective for queer women and nonbinary folks in NYC, founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel. With 2,700+ members, we host recurring events across six categories. What makes us different is the intentionality — every event facilitates real connection. Our community is 30+ professionals across every industry.
Social collectives and event communities. Professional networks for LGBTQ+ women. Sports leagues including soccer, softball, volleyball, basketball, and running clubs. Book clubs and creative groups. Volunteer and advocacy organizations including the NYC Dyke March committee.
Manhattan: West Village, Chelsea, NOHO for organized events. Brooklyn: Williamsburg, Bushwick, Park Slope, Crown Heights for grassroots community. Queens: Astoria for emerging sapphic social events.
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10th Muses — Social Collective for Queer Women and Nonbinary Folks in NYC. Founded in September 2025 by Andrea Himmel.