Find your people

Matchmaking is open to every 10th Muses member — single, dating around, partnered, polyamorous, or ENM — looking for romance, partnership, or deep friendship within a queer women and nonbinary community in NYC.

Our algorithm pairs members biweekly based on shared interests, values, lifestyle, and what each person is looking for. Matches are introduced via email; you decide whether to reply and connect.

How It Works

• Fill out your profile. Tell us what you’re looking for, your personality, your lifestyle, and a short bio.
• Get matched. Our algorithm runs every two weeks, pairing you with compatible community members.
• Connect. You’ll receive an email introduction with your match. Reply to start the conversation.

Who It’s For

Members of 10th Muses across all five NYC boroughs and beyond — Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, Staten Island, Jersey City, Hoboken, Westchester, Long Island, Connecticut, and the Hudson Valley.

Open to queer women, lesbians, sapphic, WLW, bisexual, pansexual, and nonbinary members. The matchmaking program is opt-in: members choose whether to participate and what kind of connection they’re looking for.

Get Started

Join 10th Muses to access the matchmaking program along with members-only events, the community directory, and our WhatsApp community.

10th Muses — Social Collective for Queer Women and Nonbinary Folks in NYC.