Find your people

Dating is open to every 10th Muses member — single, dating around, partnered, polyamorous, or ENM — looking for romance, partnership, or deep friendship within a community for Queer & Lesbian Women, Trans & NB Folks, 30+ in NYC.

Browse members open to dating one card at a time, like the ones you’re drawn to, and connect when it’s mutual. You can also request a warm introduction to a member.

How It Works

• Fill out your profile. Tell us what you’re looking for and add a short bio.
• Swipe. Browse members open to dating and like the ones you’d like to meet.
• Connect. When the like is mutual, it’s a match — start the conversation.

Who It’s For

Members of 10th Muses across all five NYC boroughs and beyond — Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, Staten Island, Jersey City, Hoboken, Westchester, Long Island, Connecticut, and the Hudson Valley.

For Queer & Lesbian Women, Trans & NB Folks, 30+. Dating is opt-in: members choose whether to appear and what kind of connection they’re looking for.

Get Started

Join 10th Muses to access dating along with members-only events, the community directory, and our WhatsApp community.

10th Muses — Social Club for Queer & Lesbian Women, Trans & NB Folks, 30+ in NYC.